Learning ‘Patience’

by Saju Joseph on April 20, 2009

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My son is 8 months now, he is growing faster than I imagined. Watching him grow at this pace makes me feel older each day and the 2 strands of grey hair on my head is really driving me crazy. Well I realize life goes on at its pace, it’s exciting to watch my son grow and see things change.

I want to stay happy each day, past is gone, future is in Gods hand. To stay happy today, the most important thing for me is to be more patient and not become anxious about what’s coming next.

I love this quote by Rainer Maria ..

“Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is to live everything. Live the questions”

Getting impatient doesn’t really solve anything and at the end we all learn to settle with whatever happens in life. For me sometimes it seems like a big challenge especially with those things that are not in my control.

I guess everyone goes through these challenges. Feeling frustrated, misunderstood by people, burnt out, forgotten, restless, agitated, stressed and angry; all part of life (Did I mention everything?). Although difficult, I’ve learned staying patient helps me stay satisfied, accomplished, understood, remembered, calm, peaceful, relaxed, and happy cause everything happens at its own time.

God is the perfect judge; He knows what we need and when we need it.

{ 6 comments… read them below or add one }

Donna April 20, 2009 at 9:52 am

jairus is cuteeeee …

and a really beautiful post for an impatient one like me :)

God bless you!

Blaze April 21, 2009 at 1:53 pm

Nice! I require ‘Patience’ too. I’m rushing into too many things instead of planing and having the patience for one. This results to ending up in all that you mentioned above, aggression, restlessness and frustration. Anyways, you always come out with some really interesting posts. Hats off to that!

God Bless!
-Blaze

Saju Joseph April 21, 2009 at 4:48 pm

Thanks Donna …

Saju Joseph April 21, 2009 at 4:49 pm

Thanks bro, that was motivating.

Pallavi Pandit May 5, 2009 at 6:28 am

I never knew you could write so well, Saju!
Very well written journal!

Saju Joseph May 5, 2009 at 8:13 am

Thanks Pallavi for the compliment. Feels good :)

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